


I love your sparkles by the way!
Take it slow. God created physical intimacy as a special thing for a husband and wife to share...inside of marriage, not outside. I'm not trying to offend you or anything...plz don't take it like that...but alot of my friends have gone that far and they wish they could take it back. And another thing...those relationships are now broken...the guy/girl that they were with is no longer a part of their life. Once your virginity is lost(which is a very special part of you) you can NEVER get it back. And if that relationship is broken and you marry someone else...just think...you've already had sex and not with the one God meant for you. You will pass on all your previous experiences to your husband. God meant for us to be holy and pure always! A sexual life is meant for a married couple...NOT boyfriend and girlfriend. There's also the question of: What if you got pregnant? That's a new life and totally different world..especially when you become a new mother at an age younger than true marrying age which is about between 21 and 25. The world says it's ok to marry at the age of 15,16,17,18,etc., but at those ages you are not maturely ready for the responsibilities of a married couple let alone family. I don't want to hurt your feelings or anything, but as a Christian, and you yourself being one, I figured I might should say something. PLZ let me know what you think of all this and whether or not I've offended you(which was NOT my purpose by any stretch of the imagination!). SSL(Sorry So Long).
Once more question that you should ask yourself: Does this guy share in your Christian faith? It's not enough that he says "I'll accept your faith". He has to believe it himself. If the answer is no to this one, then you don't have to worry about the rest. Someone who shares in your faith and morals will not push you to do something you know or feel not to do. That takes a lot of pressure off the relationship. You said he's used to having sex right off the bat and you're not ready for that...then be prepared b/c he will tire of that and either force you or leave you b/c he only wants that one thing. I may be wrong about yur guy (seeing as how I've never met him! LOL!), but that still doesn't drop my emphasis of being extremely careful. If you need scriptural backup for this, here's some for you to look up and e-mail me(under my profile) if you don't understand or have questions: 2 Corinthians 6:14 - 7:1; 1 Corinthians 6:13-20. I hope these help. Talk at ya l8er! Toodles!
Why does it have to be inside of marriage? Well, if you believe God's word and what He says to be true, then it's simply because God said so. If you disobey God, well...it's just not good. You'll feel guilty, regretful, and then...when it's all said and done(after you've had sex or done anything sinful), the feeling's not as great as you thought it would be. Remember this: guys are 90% physical and 10% emotional; girls are 90% emotional and 10% physical. A guy looks at a girl's body, unless(w/only God's help and through self-control...which by the way is how it should be) he doesn't. The girl feels and those feelings are easily hurt and destroyed. I know it seems like "man, just another rule" but believe it or not it's a VERY good principle to live by, let alone it being God's word. If you have any comments, just tag or e-mail me! Toodles and Love you! P.S. You might want to reconsider growing closer to God rather than pulling away from Him. Once again: No offense meant.
SIN IS ONLY FUN FOR A SEASON! THEN COME THE REGRETS AND CONSEQUENCES! THAT'S BIBLE!